Paul opens chapter 3 of Romans by asking a reflective question. If we all know about God from nature, then what is the advantage of being a Jew or Christian? I thought, I value a direct interaction, face to face, over a third party communication that opens the door to misunderstanding. Also, I always thought hearing what the other wanted for Christmas was clearer than guessing how to please that person. Perhaps your answer was different. Paul, in verse 3, asks another question — Does my inability to live up to the law mean that God does not have to live up to his promises?
“3What if some are unfaithful? Will their infidelity nullify the fidelity of God? 4 Of course not? God must be true, though every human being is a liar, as it is written: That you may be justified in your words and conquer when you are judged.’”
As I am now in the role of caretaker of a spouse with dementia, whether it is really necessary to visit everyday, as it is difficult to know many times whether I am recognized, is a question I am often asked. I first answered that if my husband was faithful during nine months of pregnancy four times round when I was fat and awkward and needed help then I owe him at least nine times four or 36 months of visiting before I entertain that question. We laughed. My husband was faithful despite my awkwardness. More recently I have changed my thinking. I am not faithful because he was faithful. I am faithfully visiting because that is the sort of person I want to be regardless of his response to me. I believe God is constant in his character regardless of how I treat him. He is faithful, loving, and fair. He always speaks the truth whether it makes me happy or not.
So today let’s think of just three characteristics we would like people to identify when they think of us. Ask God to continue to build those characteristics into your being. Thank God for the Holy Spirit’s help. Blessings.
On the Way to Wonder 