39-40 Three things, then, to sum this up: When you speak forth God’s truth, speak your heart out. Don’t tell people how they should or shouldn’t pray when they’re praying in tongues that you don’t understand. Be courteous and considerate in everything.
1 Corinthians 14:39-40, The Message
Consideration and courtesy are the words Paul uses to describe the atmosphere he would like to see in a worship service of the early church. There was no New Testament to read from, only letters being circulated, and what we now call the Old Testament. There were no printing presses so I doubt written testimonies were available. There were no seminaries or Bible schools. People gathered to share orally their insights and experiences. Paul addresses women encouraging them to not be disruptive. We know this dynamic. Many churches have Sunday school at the same time as worship services so active children do not disturb elders who can’t hear. Nursery rooms or rocking chairs are provided in the back of the church for tiny tots. Churches struggle with making church “user friendly” for the most possible. Paul uses the words “considerate” and “courteous” as an over arching goal.
Consideration …considers the needs of the other and does not put self first. The dictionary defines it as the process of “carefully thinking over a matter typically over a period of time.” We might reflect on all the thought going into making political rallies safe, user friendly and edifying for the most people right now. Certainly we want our worships services to be places worthy of similar consideration and courtesy for all.
So perhaps we might ponder what part of going to church do you really enjoy? How could you help create a similar experience for others? Lord, help us to be considerate and courteous in all we do at church!