Favoritism

September 7, 2020

Today we start looking at chapter 2 of James and our theme changes from trials, whew.  “My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ, don’t show favoritism.”  Perhaps our most favorite example is the life of Joseph that was so impacted by his father’s overt favoritism for him, the first son of his second wife, Rachael.  Jacob, his father, gave him a multicolored coat – overt favoritism.  The favoritism this coat exemplified impacted the whole future of the clan and history of Judaism.  It is natural, I think, that we like some things, some people, some restaurants more than others.  Diversity and choice are God-given.  So what is the problem?

         Going back to the book’s opening paragraph on counting trials as joy, I suspect that trials will immediately raise doubts, for me anyway, that God is favoring the other to the detriment of my interests.  Questions about my value, my worth, my importance creep into my thinking.  The early church formed in the melting pot of ethnicities in Jerusalem, in the crucible of political chaos under the rule of the Romans, and economically challenged by inherent caste system, would have had to deal with favoritism.  We will see this discussed in the context of seating arrangements in church but that is only “the tip of the iceberg.”

         It is so tempting when we encounter trials to think that God is favoring the other, taking a nap, busy in the middle-East or just not involved in our little situation but that is not so.  James challenges us not to show favoritism because it does not reflect God.  As we go about our daily life today, may we guard ourselves about the temptation to believe God favors someone else and so is letting a problem come our way.  May we not show favoritism.


SUNDAY SEPTEMBER 6, 2020 PENTECOST 14

September 5, 2020

First Reading: Ezekiel 33:7-11

7So you, mortal, I have made a sentinel for the house of Israel; whenever you hear a word from my mouth, you shall give them warning from me. 8If I say to the wicked, “O wicked ones, you shall surely die,” and you do not speak to warn the wicked to turn from their ways, the wicked shall die in their iniquity, but their blood I will require at your hand. 9But if you warn the wicked to turn from their ways, and they do not turn from their ways, the wicked shall die in their iniquity, but you will have saved your life.
  10Now you, mortal, say to the house of Israel, Thus you have said: “Our transgressions and our sins weigh upon us, and we waste away because of them; how then can we live?” 11Say to them, As I live, says the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from their ways and live; turn back, turn back from your evil ways; for why will you die, O house of Israel?

Psalm: Psalm 119:33-40

33Teach me, O Lord, the way of your statutes,
  and I shall keep it to the end.
34Give me understanding, and I shall keep your teaching;
  I shall keep it with all my heart.
35Lead me in the path of your commandments,
  for that is my desire.
36Incline my heart to your decrees
  and not to unjust gain. 
37Turn my eyes from beholding falsehood;
  give me life in your way.
38Fulfill your promise to your servant,
  which is for those who fear you.
39Turn away the reproach that I dread,
  because your judgments are good.
40Behold, I long for your commandments;
  by your righteousness enliven me. 

Second Reading: Romans 13:8-14.

8Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. 9The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery; You shall not murder; You shall not steal; You shall not covet”; and any other commandment, are summed up in this word, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” 10Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law.
  11Besides this, you know what time it is, how it is now the moment for you to wake from sleep. For salvation is nearer to us now than when we became believers; 12the night is far gone, the day is near. Let us then lay aside the works of darkness and put on the armor of light; 13let us live honorably as in the day, not in reveling and drunkenness, not in debauchery and licentiousness, not in quarreling and jealousy. 14Instead, put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.

Gospel: Matthew 18:15-20

 [Jesus said to the disciples:] 15“If another member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone. If the member listens to you, you have regained that one. 16But if you are not listened to, take one or two others along with you, so that every word may be confirmed by the evidence of two or three witnesses. 17If the member refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if the offender refuses to listen even to the church, let such a one be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. 18Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. 19Again, truly I tell you, if two of you agree on earth about anything you ask, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. 20For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them.”

  • Children’s Sermon:      The Lion & the Mouse

A Lion lay asleep in the forest, his great head resting on his paws. A timid little Mouse came upon him unexpectedly, and in her fright and haste to get away, ran across the Lion’s nose. Roused from his nap, the Lion laid his huge paw angrily on the tiny creature to kill her.

“Spare me!” begged the poor Mouse. “Please let me go and some day I will surely repay you.”

The Lion was much amused to think that a Mouse could ever help him. But he was generous and finally let the Mouse go.

Some days later, while stalking his prey in the forest, the Lion was caught in the toils of a hunter’s net. Unable to free himself, he filled the forest with his angry roaring. The Mouse knew the voice and quickly found the Lion struggling in the net. Running to one of the great ropes that bound him, she gnawed it until it parted, and soon the Lion was free.

“You laughed when I said I would repay you,” said the Mouse. “Now you see that even a Mouse can help a Lion.”

A kindness is never wasted.

PRAYER:  May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and redeemer

SERMON

As we listen to the readings from the Word of God, Lutherans start with an Old Testament reading, followed by a Psalm and a New Testament reading – before the Gospel that is always centered around the teachings of Jesus.  The pattern will often be that the Old Testament identifies the situation that is being addressed on a given Sunday.  In the Psalm reading, we the people agree.  The New Testament reading shares how the early church understood Jesus to speak to the issue.  Then we stand for the reading of the Gospel, to show respect for the words that came from Jesus, the living word.  Today Ezekiel reminds us that we are ALL sinners and we all offend others and yet we are called to be a light of God’s truth to the world.  In the Psalm we plea for help to learn and understand God’s statues.  The early church saw that fulfilled as we live in love with the other.         

“Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law.” 

How does that work practically, the nuts and bolts.  I can sing with Jackie DeShannon.  “What the world needs now is love, sweet love.  It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of.  What the world needs now is love, sweet love,  No not just for some but for everyone.” 

         Jesus gave us a formula.  When an offense occurs between myself and someone else, I am not to chew that bone and ignore it but seek to resolve the difference with the other.  Scary stuff if I am busy protecting self!  If that does not work because both of you see the issue differently, then step two is to seek an arbitrator, an impartial party who can listen to both sides without bias and help you both to find the middle road.  Is the goal self justification or resolution of relationship?  If THAT fails then Jesus says to take it to the church body.  If your family is like mine, the unspoken rule is that we don’t hang dirty laundry in-front of others.  If love is not the motivating factor, we end up with surface politeness and then we go home and have the sermon dissected for lunch, or the other person.  We do not follow these guidelines of going to the other, next an arbitrator, and finally going to the church and I would suspect that the cause is we are not rooted in love.

            Two Sundays ago we read Matthew 16 and heard Peter confess that that Jesus was the Messiah, and Jesus affirms that confession as limited as Peter’s understanding was at the time.  Jesus is going to build a church on the faith the size of a mustard seed.  Reality is there will be betrayal and failings.  But Jesus will build the church, not me.  Jesus then talks about the Keys of the Kingdom.  In chapter 18, he now circles back to that same principle and embedded it in a conversation about misunderstandings in the church, in the reality that we will fail, we will sin, and we will offend each other.

         Churches are not perfect communities that ooze love.  Do I hear an “Amen!”  Jesus says, 18Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.”  Our anger, our disagreements, bind the power of God in our lives and in the lives of others.  Two weeks ago I looked to the story of the prodigal son.  The father with two sons, one resenting being under the father’s authority, takes his inheritance and squanders it.  While his heart is closed to the father and while he is seeking to lead his own life, he struggles and relationship is broken.  He returns and unbinds the situation but interestingly the other brother has bound himself with jealousy and resentment, the silent anger.  Both have lost blessing with the father and with each other because of their closed hearts. 

         We see these stories all through scripture, twin brothers, Jacob and Esau spend years apart because of their jealousy.  How many people were hurt in Egypt because the pharaoh did not submit.  Ezekiel laments, “Our transgressions and our sins weigh upon us, and we waste away because of them; how then can we live?”  Disagreements are an albatross around our necks and around the ministry of the church.

         In the same way Jesus reminds us of the blessings of a community pulling together, 19Again, truly I tell you, if two of you agree on earth about anything you ask, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven.” The daycare and the community garden of Bethany are not the result of one person’s dream but are the result of a united vision to bless others.  I think of so many verses that talk about love.  “Love covers a multitude of sins.”  1 Corinthians 13, “Now faith, hope and love abide but the greatest of these is love.”  As we follow the guidelines of scripture – put God first, love parents, don’t kill or steal or slander or covet – God is able to work in ways we would not expect.  I think of the parable of the Good Samaritan.  A man walking on the road between two towns is beaten up and robbed.  People walk by and do not want to be involved, to get their hands dirty, but the foreigner stops and helps the man, binding his wounds and taking him to an inn and seeing he is cared for.  How many lives have been touched by that story.  Elizabeth Fedde, one of the patron leaders of the Deaconess movement in the USA came from Norway to Boston to help Norwegian sailors.  She started Sunday schools, an ambulance society, and on her vacation in Minneapolis founded the Lutheran Deaconess Hospital that merged with Fairview.  Wow!  We do not know how many the ripples of her life touched.  We do not know how many are touched by the attitudes in our hearts.  Jesus says that when we agree, we unleash the power of God from Heaven.

         Jesus closes today,  20For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them.”  We are more than two or three people gathered today in Jesus name.  We do not just gather in his name, he is here among us, ready to bless.  It is his nature to bless.  God is love.  Let us go home resolved to deal with our differences, to resolve our conflicts, and to allow love to permeate our lives.  All by God’s power, of course.  He’s ready, are we? 

         The lion in our children’s sermon did not know the result of his kind deed to the mouse.  Perhaps he didn’t even let her go from love.  But in the same way, as we release insults to God to handle, we will be blessed.  To that I can say, “Amen, Lord, let it be so!”


Tongues

September 5, 2020

We are nearing the end of chapter 1 of James, v.26, “If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless.”  We started this chapter with considering trials with joy and we end with “worthless religion” if we cannot control our tongues.  Wow.  It reminds me of one of our recent sermon texts where Jesus is questioned about dietary laws by the legalists.  He responds that what goes into a man does not defile him but what comes from the heart, anger, hate, jealousy, tells the truth about the state of the soul.  Undergoing trials is a kind of litmus test of the soul.  Are we tossing and turning like a wave of the sea because we do not trust the wisdom given generously by God?  Are we blooming like a wild flower? Do I persevere and learn?  Am I checking out the desires of my heart and taking an inventory of the desires that are driving me?  Perhaps, like the stepmother in Snow White, I ask the mirror a question and use the answer to do evil. 

         Probably most revealing during a trying time is the state of my tongue.  When I start snapping at the people I love, saying things I don’t really mean, and using my speech to destroy and not build, I know I am not considering the momentary trial, momentary.  I need to remind myself that every good and perfect gift comes from above.  Yesterday was a heavy duty day of packing and moving.  At midnight my back screamed with pain and complaint.  But this morning I look out at the Banana River, running parallel to the Barrier Islands off the East coast of Florida and blocks from the Atlantic Ocean.  This morning I remember the blessings of friendship and anticipate the adventures to come.  Lord, guard my tongue and keep my eyes on you!  Blessings.


Mirrors

September 4, 2020

Have you ever looked in the mirror, groaned, and realized you are going to have a “bad hair day”?  It could be the white hair, the circles under the eyes, or the sagging jowls.  Then again it could be the reminder that eyes have a problem or skin.  Hand mirrors even help see our backside and those places we do not normally see.  James says that reading the Word is like looking in a mirror but if we walk away either forgetting the warning that we are very tired, need to check in with the doctor or the gym, and blithely go about our business, we have missed the warning and been unwise.  During trials, gathering advice, reading books or whatever we do, is pointless if we do not have a heart to listen.  The mirror is not bad.  It only reflects an image but it is our heart that interprets that reflection and acts or ignores.  God’s word speaks the truth to us with eternal principles and James says that the person who looks at the truth, ponders and absorbs, applies and doesn’t forget will find freedom and blessing.  So often we think the law, or the Word, is the problem by being too strict or uncompassionate but it what goes on in my head, how I process truth that makes the difference.  May we look into God’s word today non-defensively, looking intently, reflecting kindly with ourselves and see the loving face of God trying to lead us.  Blessings as you go about your day.  Don’t forget what you saw in the mirror of God’s word this morning.  He cares!


Listening

September 3, 2020

James gives us some sage advice, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves.   Do what it says. (v. 1:22)”  One starlit evening after the Christmas banquet, my date drove me to Griffith Observatory in Los Angeles to look out over the basin.  The park was closed and he drove in the exit!  As we walked around the observatory and looked at L.A. aglow, he shared about being at independence day of the country he grew up in.  I must admit I was listening but my eye was searching for a restroom and aware of the druggies shooting up in the shadows.  It suddenly occurred to me that this was an important story.  I turned to him and asked, “What are you talking about?”  He looked at me and said, “I want to go from independence to interdependence and change my flag.  Will you marry me?”  Listening went to a whole new level.  These words he shared were a call to action and commitment.

         How often do we sit and listen, kind of, but our mind is somehow engaged on other issues.  I’m not convinced that is all bad as I find the words in a sermon trigger an application scenario from my life I want to think about but James warns us that we can be deceiving ourselves,  nodding our heads but really focusing on our own ponderings.  God’s word is not just entertainment but as James will go on to say, a mirror that reflects reality to me and calls me to action or integration of faith with my life.

         Proverbs 3:11 reminds me, “My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those he loves as a father the son he delights in.”  As you read God’s word, may you act on what challenges you to grow but also absorb the promises that comforts you in the process.  You are the child he delights in and he will not ignore you.  Blessings.


Anger

September 2, 2020

Yesterday we read in James 1:20 that “man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.” When I was a young adult back last century and when “groups” were the vogue, a crew of friends and I met with a counselor at college and of course it was easier to focus on the injustices of siblings or parents as the cause of my deficiencies. A couple years later a godly elder confronted me and said, “You’re angry.” I didn’t realize it showed! He pointed me to Genesis 4:6 where the Lord speaks to Cain after his offering is not as pleasing as Abel’s, his brother. God says, “Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast? If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door, it desires to have you, but you must master it.” That visual image of an evil presence crouching at the door seeking to devour me has stayed with me and encouraged me to deal with my anger, my disappointed wants. I am challenged to focus on what I do have and not the wrongs of the other. Proverbs 2 for today reinforces this idea. The search for wisdom rather than self justification and approval draws our focus to God rather than self. “The Lord gives wisdom (v.6), “he holds victory (v.7)”, “he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless (v.7)”, and “he guards the course of the just and protects the way of his faithful ones. (v.8)” Those are beautiful promises that slow my roll when I am angered. Anger is real. It makes my face downcast. He consumes me unless with God’s help I can master it. As you meet disappointments today, may you sense God’s presence and arms holding you and know he cares. Blessings.


Listen

September 1, 2020

During this season of campaign speeches, how interesting that we ponder James 1:19, “My dear brothers, take note of this. Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. For man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.” Listen, speak, anger are somehow united. Since today is September first, I laid James next to Proverbs 1. In the intro in Proverbs 1, verse 5 begins a theme in the chapter, “let the wise listen.” Verse 6 continues, “Listen, my son to your father’s instructions and do not forsake your mother’s teaching.” He personifies wisdom like a woman calling to us from the streets. If we are not listening to wisdom then we are probably not engaging with wisdom and wisdom can not help us in time of trouble.
In our noise driven world, listening requires that we unplug from social media, our music, our cell phones and take time to calm our souls so our ears tune into other sounds, perhaps music, perhaps friends, perhaps the Word. Listening takes time and so it is logical that if we are listening and pondering then we will be slower to respond rather than formulating our speech, our defense even before the other has finished a sentence.
James goes beyond listening and speaking to the content, the purpose of our communication. Being slow to anger, to me, would mean that I am listening, not to defend myself, not to hear accusations, but to understand the other. Anger often involves if not a sense of self-defense, perhaps a defense of what I think is right. How can I learn if my mind is made up at the start? How can I become wise?
As you go through today, may you listen with a heart to understand, speak with a desire to bless, and count to ten as you feel anger bubbling inside. To be angry is not the sin but what we do with it. Be slow to anger, resolving differences in the light of wisdom. Blessings.